Recently I switched to a chain gym and discovered it's basically a surreal little gay community.

No joke — in the steam room and sauna, good-looking people only interact with other good-looking people, and those with great bodies sometimes get approached.
As for someone like me, average-looking and without a six-pack, I'm the quietest scenery in the whole room...🥲

The wildest time was at a branch near a station — I saw over a dozen people in the steam room just... you know, like they were having a private, unofficial party. I also often see a few god-tier guys finish working out and walk hand in hand into the same shower to "wash feelings."

Honestly, I'm not at the gym to make friends, but watching those handsome guys attract each other while I feel invisible like air is kind of bittersweet. I can be great at chatting and have a nice personality, but if your looks don't meet the standard, it's like you don't even get a ticket to this "social selection."

🔍What do you think? Is there some kind of "gay hierarchy" in gyms?
Have you ever felt labeled as an "outsider" in spaces like these?

Or are you one of those "glowing" people who gets approached first?
Leave a comment and share your observations from the gym!

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