Just a little curious — can I ask everyone, what does it feel like to have your asshole licked for the first time?

The day before yesterday I hooked up with a tattooed Taiwanese guy; it was my first time having my anus licked. I was a bit shy at first and thought, wouldn’t that be awkward? And I quietly wondered, 'Won’t that smell…?' (although I had cleaned myself first 🤣)
It actually felt surprising… it was pleasant, a bit stimulating, like opening a door to a new world?

But — then came the 'worse' part that really killed the mood.

When we met the second time, the whole encounter felt really cold. From the start he lay there like a dead fish and even did a video call (and from the voice it sounded like the person on the other end might be his girlfriend 😑).
I was basically servicing him the whole time, while he watched short clips and lazed around; only when I was exhausted did he want to go on, and it was under five minutes before he prematurely ejaculated inside… and then he just looked down and kept watching Taiwanese short clips?

The whole feeling was like I was a free-use tool or just there for that… you know 🐔
I felt a bit stifled and a bit hurt; there probably won’t be a next time.

Has anyone else had this kind of 'first-time surprise, second-time disappointment' bad hookup?
Or if you’ve been anally licked or have licked someone’s anus, can you share how it felt? 🙈