I have never been to a spa, but recently I saw a therapist I really like. After asking, the therapist said they also offer additional services. However, these extras are always discussed with the therapist during the massage, unlike when you arrange a hookup where you can discuss things in advance. I'd like to ask anyone with experience: is it appropriate to ask the therapist to use safety measures? I don't want to go and find out it's not possible and end up getting only a regular massage @@